All YOU have to down is download the PDF, click on any gift ideas that you love, add ’em to your shopping cart, purchase, and wait for them to be delivered to your door! Because life is stressful enough, so why not make things just a little bit easier?!AND you’re not in shopping mode quite yet, you can always just pin this gift guide to make it easy to find the perfect Christmas gift in a flash!

And, if you haven't already, try online dating, which is bringing new hope to those of us who don't have a ton of time or want to hang out at bars.

Check out sites such as that can help you find long-term relationships versus flings or hookups.

Plainfield High School students published a robust dating guide filled with articles about safe dating, breakups and first kisses.

But one page in particular, Page 16, is stirring a controversy that could cost their teacher and adviser her job.

For example, if you like the outdoors, join a gay hiking or walking group, and meet men while you get fresh air and exercise.

Focus on smaller parties, events centered on hobbies and interests, and volunteer opportunities.

It's also a good idea to ask your closest friends for regular feedback (yes, ask them to give you input on your actions and choices), so you don't get stuck in your ways. Realize you can be single and happy Hey, you don't have to tell me it's tough being gay, single and over 50.

It's not like gay subculture has given us lots of happily dating, older gay male role models.

Because we know it can sometimes get overwhelming, we decided to put together a fun little gift guide to make your gift-giving experience as EASY and STRESS FREE as possible.